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Erik Fuhrer Poet · Queer Survivor · Teacher · Facilitator

I teach people how to write about difficult material using persona, myth, genre, and form. The structure carries the weight so the writer does not have to.

"I often felt trapped inside the narratives of my abusers. I was never the protagonist in my own story." Writing in the horror genre, and writing letters to fictional characters, gave me control over my monsters. That process became eight books, a methodology, and a community. Psychology Today

Author of eight books · Featured in Psychology Today

Ph.D., University of Glasgow · MFA, University of Notre Dame · PMP

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    A community for people doing inner work and writing work at the same time. We use persona, myth, fragment, and genre shift to write about what happened without the costume party where the costume is your worst memory. Form carries the weight so the writer does not have to. Opens July 1.

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    How I Got Here

    I started writing letters to Buffy Summers. And memories I was never before able to write or speak started arriving on the page.

    That became two books: My Buffed Up Life and Gellar Studies. It became a writing methodology, workshops and events for organizations dealing with conflict they keep rescheduling around, and a community for people writing through and about trauma.

    Every time I sat down, my body icicled. My brain pulled the trolley lever and ran the trolley right over my writing.
    “Erik’s teaching helped me transform the traumatic events in my life into art. I started to release a lot of pain that I experienced into light and to have a greater sense of compassion for myself.”
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    Trauma clogs and disrupts narrative. My mistake was not seeing these disjointed sequences as narrative. I saw them as broken rather than as their own jagged story that didn't need smoothing. Psychology Today

    Eight Books and Counting

    A combination of My Little Pony and watching Sarah Michelle Gellar chew the scenery in All My Children solidified my queerness at a young age. The books followed.